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Your Nervous System Isn’t Broken: Discover Safety Cues to Regulate your Body During Scary, Uncertain Times
If your body has felt tense, on edge, or unable to relax lately, you’re not broken. This post explores safety cues—how the nervous system decides when it’s safe to let go—and practical ways to feel steadier during uncertain times.

Danielle Roxborough
Jan 307 min read


13 Signs You Have a High-Quality Therapist
A trauma-informed therapist explains the 13 signs of a high-quality therapist, what excellent therapy looks like, and how the therapeutic relationship rewires the brain for healing.

Danielle Roxborough
Dec 8, 20255 min read


Disney Lied to Us: The Honest Truth About Modern Marriage, Media Conditioning, and Why So Many Couples Feel Dissatisfied Today
Couples today are navigating expectations no previous generation had: two-working-parent households, emotional labor, trauma awareness, shifting gender roles, and attachment needs.
No one taught us how to do this.
But you can learn.

Danielle Roxborough
Dec 4, 20257 min read


The 4 Phases of a Relationship: From Honeymoon to Acceptance
Every relationship moves through seasons. Some are full of light and effortless connection; others feel heavier, confusing, or even lonely. Understanding these four core relationship phases—Honeymoon, Realization, Tension, and Acceptance—helps couples normalize the ups and downs and intentionally move toward a deeper, more grounded love.

Danielle Roxborough
Nov 4, 20253 min read


The Secret Weapon of Thriving Couples: The Art of Repair
According to Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the “Masters of Relationships” aren’t conflict-free.
They simply make repair attempts early and often—sometimes dozens within a single conversation.

Danielle Roxborough
Oct 22, 20253 min read


10 Innovative Therapy Techniques That Help Couples Strengthen Their Relationship and Improve Communication
Healthy relationships aren’t built on perfection—they’re built on repair, curiosity, and daily micro-moments of trust

Danielle Roxborough
Oct 8, 20253 min read


“Therapy Bro Summer” Is Here—and It Might Just Save Men’s Lives (and Relationships)
There’s a new kind of hot guy this summer—and he’s not just shirtless at the beach. He’s in therapy, drinking an iced oat latte, saying things like, “I’ve been working on my attachment style.”

Danielle Roxborough
Jul 18, 20253 min read


Severance Season 2 and the Parts Within: A Trauma-Informed Look at the Inner Split
Apple TV’s Severance is a haunting metaphor for trauma, dissociation, and emotional repression. Learn how Internal Family Systems and attachment theory offer a path toward integration, healing — and connection.

Danielle Roxborough
Jun 9, 20255 min read


7 Conversations That Can Save Your Relationship
Emotionally Focused Therapy Tools and Conversations to improve your relationship

Danielle Roxborough
May 6, 20253 min read


How Trauma Can Affect Attachment Style and Disrupt Relationships
Trauma, Attachment and Relationships

Danielle Roxborough
Apr 10, 20254 min read


The Impact of Return To Work Mandates on Relationships, Family, & Self-Care from the POV of a Relational Therapist, a Mother, a Bonus Mom, and a Fair Play Facilitator
How Return To Work Mandates are dismantling family systems, and causing mental health issues for Mothers, Father, Children and Family.

Danielle Roxborough
Jan 15, 202511 min read
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