Every relationship moves through seasons. Some are full of light and effortless connection; others feel heavier, confusing, or even lonely. Understanding these four core relationship phases—Honeymoon, Realization, Tension, and Acceptance—helps couples normalize the ups and downs and intentionally move toward a deeper, more grounded love.

According to Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the “Masters of Relationships” aren’t conflict-free. They simply make repair attempts early and often—sometimes dozens within a single conversation.