A trauma-informed therapist explains the 13 signs of a high-quality therapist, what excellent therapy looks like, and how the therapeutic relationship rewires the brain for healing.

Couples today are navigating expectations no previous generation had: two-working-parent households, emotional labor, trauma awareness, shifting gender roles, and attachment needs. No one taught us how to do this. But you can learn.

A trauma-informed analysis of the “performative male” through Lily Allen’s West End Girls, Vice’s critique, Vogue’s viral take on boyfriends, and how fragile masculinity, attachment wounds, and shifting gender dynamics affect modern relationships. Learn how these patterns show up in couples therapy and how to heal them.

From the perspective of a trauma-informed couples therapist, Lily Allen’s West End Girl reveals how addiction, codependency, and attachment trauma intertwine in relationships — and how healing anxious and avoidant patterns is possible through deep attachment repair, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).

According to Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the “Masters of Relationships” aren’t conflict-free. They simply make repair attempts early and often—sometimes dozens within a single conversation.

There’s a new kind of hot guy this summer—and he’s not just shirtless at the beach. He’s in therapy, drinking an iced oat latte, saying things like, “I’ve been working on my attachment style.”

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