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The Fear That Shapes Love: How Abandonment Wounds Create Anxious and Avoidant Attachment
Humans are born neurologically unfinished. We depend on caregivers not just for food and shelter, but for emotional regulation itself. Before language, before logic, before memory as we know it, the nervous system is learning one essential lesson: Am I safe in connection?

Danielle Roxborough
Jan 55 min read


K-Pop Demon Hunters: How a Viral Netflix Hit Became a Modern Allegory for Healing Trauma and Shame
Netflix’s K-Pop Demon Hunters isn’t just a fantasy about idols and demons—it’s a viral allegory for mental health, trauma healing, and shame recovery. Through Rumi’s hidden “patterns” and Jinu’s struggle between grandiosity and guilt, the film mirrors real-world psychology: how avoidance feeds anxiety, how connection transforms pain, and how music becomes medicine for the nervous system. Drawing on current research in depression, anxiety, and men’s mental health, LMFT Daniell

Danielle Roxborough
Oct 14, 20257 min read
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