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13 Signs You Have a High-Quality Therapist
A trauma-informed therapist explains the 13 signs of a high-quality therapist, what excellent therapy looks like, and how the therapeutic relationship rewires the brain for healing.

Danielle Roxborough
Dec 8, 20255 min read


Disney Lied to Us: The Honest Truth About Modern Marriage, Media Conditioning, and Why So Many Couples Feel Dissatisfied Today
Couples today are navigating expectations no previous generation had: two-working-parent households, emotional labor, trauma awareness, shifting gender roles, and attachment needs.
No one taught us how to do this.
But you can learn.

Danielle Roxborough
Dec 4, 20257 min read


Behind the Performative Male: Lily Allen’s West End Girl and the Psychology of The Performative Male
A trauma-informed analysis of the “performative male” through Lily Allen’s West End Girls, Vice’s critique, Vogue’s viral take on boyfriends, and how fragile masculinity, attachment wounds, and shifting gender dynamics affect modern relationships. Learn how these patterns show up in couples therapy and how to heal them.

Danielle Roxborough
Nov 18, 202512 min read


The 4 Phases of a Relationship: From Honeymoon to Acceptance
Every relationship moves through seasons. Some are full of light and effortless connection; others feel heavier, confusing, or even lonely. Understanding these four core relationship phases—Honeymoon, Realization, Tension, and Acceptance—helps couples normalize the ups and downs and intentionally move toward a deeper, more grounded love.

Danielle Roxborough
Nov 4, 20253 min read


K-Pop Demon Hunters: How a Viral Netflix Hit Became a Modern Allegory for Healing Trauma and Shame
Netflix’s K-Pop Demon Hunters isn’t just a fantasy about idols and demons—it’s a viral allegory for mental health, trauma healing, and shame recovery. Through Rumi’s hidden “patterns” and Jinu’s struggle between grandiosity and guilt, the film mirrors real-world psychology: how avoidance feeds anxiety, how connection transforms pain, and how music becomes medicine for the nervous system. Drawing on current research in depression, anxiety, and men’s mental health, LMFT Daniell

Danielle Roxborough
Oct 14, 20257 min read
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